I woke up this morning to the death of Bernie Mac at only 50 years, and I felt very sad. I had a rare opportunity to see him perform in Atlanta a few years ago. After a hilarious hour, a good friend who knew some people got us backstage passes to meet him. Bernie Mac was gracious, funny, and kind. He spoke about his wife and daughter, boasting proudly that she is going to become a psychologist.
His routines were usually filled with colourful language and explicit content, but I was struck by his decency and warm nature. He would not let us leave and insisted that we break bread with him and the crew. Some wonderful Southern food was brought in and time in his company felt like a moment.
I gather much of my respect for him comes also from his long term marriage and the commitment and love he showed his family. His beginnings were humble, and it took him a great while to reach the success he craved.
Funny that the death of a person I’ve met only once can affect me so much. I pray for peace and forgiveness for him.
August 10, 2008 at 5:28 pm
I was surprised too. 50 is a young age to die. He was one of my favourite comedians but unlike you I never got a chance to see him live and then meet him in person.
May he rest in peace.
August 10, 2008 at 9:05 pm
^ Amen, A.
August 12, 2008 at 2:04 pm
RIP Bernie. He was indeed the favourite of many people. I remember watching his dvds and laughing like a maniac at some low nights….at phrases like ‘im blessed’ lol.
RIP, you’ll be missed! You and Isaac Hayes, another favourite who passed away the same time.
PS: Aya, well aren’t you lucky to have met the legend? What chance!
August 14, 2008 at 1:12 pm
A funny man who spread laughter. Sad that he’s gone, and Aya you wrote him a touching tribute. May he rest in peace. Amen.
August 14, 2008 at 10:17 pm
Isseh, Isaac Hayes’ death was a surprise too but I was really twisted over Bernie Mac’s. The man was a darling, bless his soul. I feel very fortunate to have seen him perform and luckier still to have met him.
Cigaal, amen