Folks, I can’t believe I haven’t had a chance to sit down and share reflections with my favourite readers. I had a moment at the beginning of this assignment that made me realize how much I miss venting around here (I won’t say an aha moment like that cow, Oprah, may she overdose on complex carbohydrates).
I am on an assignment with an oil company, travelling through dying towns with major oil refineries. The work is interesting but the living conditions suck. The air is thick with oil pollutants and I’ve had little chance to work out or eat well (my training is officially screwed).
I think I am a little grumpy (surprise!) because I had such a wonderful time in Valencia. I was there for less than two days, most of which was spent in meetings and getting a little sleep. Hotel was great (remind me to share my latest smelly hotel tale from New York soon).

I had 2 goals: find a great place to eat and mingle with the locals. I desperately wanted to visit some of the sites, especially the city of the Arts and Science but I couldn’t rush through such a place and plan to make it the first stop in my next trip. Instead, I spent an entire afternoon walking through the Central Market or Mercado Central as they call it.
The place bustles with life. Colours, sounds, movement. Men and women alike bargaining for prices and walking slowly from vendor to vendor picking colourful fruit and vegetable while chatting with people around. I was native-gazing and could not believe the energy and savouring of life.
I wanted to take my own photos but opted to leave my camera behind. I didn’t want that touristy look, the one you see on Japanese tourists in a pack of 500 people with expensive cameras and tacky yellow hats. You just wanna kick ‘em into traffic.
In the early hours of the evening, I sat at a cafe recommended by hotel staff. You forget what it is like to have nice, flirtatious comments from perfect strangers. A perfect gentleman helped me with my seat and another asked if I’d like to join him and a group of friends at their table.
You see, when someone says that around the place I live, you feel for your pepper spray in your right pocket and prepare to use your body weight to tackle a freak to the ground.
I had my tea in peace, enjoying a cool breezy evening. I could live in this place. I could even join these people at their tables.


October 17, 2007 at 6:53 am
wonderful mashallah, reminds me of how amazingly friendly the people from Florence were. Its lovely to meet geniunly warm people who care about the welfare of a total stranger in their city..ahh must return sometime.
October 17, 2007 at 3:07 pm
I was wondering what wave swept you away. It is good to hear of your travels. Your story came a life as I read it and I felt myself transported from my desk into a beautiful night at Valencia. It would have helped to know the flavor of the tea
October 17, 2007 at 8:19 pm
Wow aya u seem to have such a busy but very intresting life!!! lol what do u do honey? it seems like it includes lots of travels!!
October 18, 2007 at 12:48 pm
Naima, I had wide-eyed attitude of a tourist, no doubt, but the people were relaxed and happy. Coming home was very painful, the drive from the airport made me so depressed.
Native Daughter, I had mint tea. All the travel food and poor sleep made me tired and I always love tea. This place is worth visiting at least once in life.
Idil, the job has its perks, hon, and visiting new cities (not always good cities) gets you out of the monotony of the 8-5 routine. I am a management consultant and I work on short projects with companies going through change.
October 18, 2007 at 11:34 pm
So….did you join them?!
October 19, 2007 at 8:37 am
Aya, I just realized that you make the worst travel critic! But I agree that the Italian laidback lifestyle is much, much more desirable than the fast lane lifestyle here where people routinely die on their way to or from work. But I’m not sure if I’d be so trusting stranger, even those cool Europeans w/ the ’sexy accents.
October 19, 2007 at 11:51 am
I soo AGREE with native daughter ,not only did u make your story come to life bt u made us feel as if we’ve been there with u(smile))
U made me laugh wallahi about the stranger asking u to share his table, how friendly is he??!! Too much maybe ..lolll.
Amazing how a simple(kind) gesture like that can be interpreted differently if it happened anywhere else on this planet.
MISS YOUR PSTs
October 20, 2007 at 10:32 pm
Dreamer, no not this time. I wanted to be alone and native-gaze.
Om, you’re sure about that? The absolute worst and not one worse LOL. Sexy accents and laid-back demeanor aside, the Spaniards were friendly and open people, a different breed from where I come from.
Iman, thanks hon, I miss posting too! There is an air of danger and mistrust in my city that I take a breather from when travelling. People were socializing in fairly large groups and seemed to simply walk up to a person sitting alone.
October 21, 2007 at 12:20 pm
Brilliant…..as I read your experience I felt like I was there….
Its cool to meet genuine people like that….we tend to forget such people exist in the hustle and bustle of our lives
I know I cant talk….but your posts are missed Aya..
October 22, 2007 at 10:43 am
Native, thanks hon
I promise to update, I swear by my beat up car.
October 22, 2007 at 10:36 pm
I am glad that you loved Valencia. It’s a great place (I hear, never been). And I am also glad that your faith in humanity is improving.
Frankly speaking, it is amazing to hear your stories – I have had my share of raging lunatics in the Bay Area (isn’t it amazing how they always congregate?) but my general experience among friends, acquaintances and random strangers I meet is similar to the one you had at that cafe.
Has the work assignment improved?
October 24, 2007 at 5:58 am
Salaam Aya.Good to hear from u again abaayo.Are u now back or u are still traveling through?
Like Loney asks,did u join them
October 25, 2007 at 12:10 am
AMTAF, the work assignment is draining my life away but I have a couple of months to go so it’s not so bad. I didn’t realize how tired the travels plus going from city to city could make me. I feel like death wrapped in seaweed
. I’m glad to hear that your general experience with people is positive. I think I live in a sort of parallel universe but I think the kind of jobs and the cities I’ve visited have something to do with it. I think most people are evil and they should be destroyed
Tito, friend, how have you been? I wanted to come on your site and kick your ass for gossiping about me but I’m too tired and you’re forgiven
October 30, 2007 at 8:34 pm
Gossiping kulaha.I will beat u up like this and that whenever i get the chance to.
Hey i have been fine abaayo,some crazy wedding was taking its toll on me but its now over.Haye,maxaa kuu cusub adiga.